You have a divine calling and a noble birthright. The King who clothed you in righteousness did not leave you adrift to follow the sordid and ever shifting ways of the worldly. It is not yours to adopt the same arrogant attitude as that of the damned. You have a calling far above the low-life vaunting of the mongrel creature who claims womanhood yet despises the title of Lady.
If Jesus is your King, then He is also your LORD; will you submit to His word? He has made your calling clear.
The doctrine of separation is all but obliterated in the modern church even to the point where women no longer know the difference between the godly and the worldly woman. Scripture is replete with the doctrine of separation.
Nobel woman, lady, separate yourself! There is a distinction between the child of the King and the lost creature wandering outside in the streets! Everything about you should be distinctly noble, from your outward appearance, to your conversation.
The world would have you defy your husband, your King would have you submit to him. Your King would have you call your husband Lord - as Sarah did Abraham. The world would have you defy every command of God (and by the way they are commands - not suggestions). Your King would have you raise your own children. The world would have your children raised by ANYONE but Mom.
Stop being swayed by the world.
Many are your brothers in Christ - bound to the LORD Jesus; and you do us no help when you come to church with the same arrogant worldly countenance and worldly attire (or lack of godly attire) and manner of speech as the woman who yet abide under the wrath of God. If your King commands your silence in the church, then you may either serve Him or serve Satan; but you cannot serve two masters.
Clothe yourself with godly modesty and take up your noble commission. Let the world scorn! Let them also tremble at the sight of God's children submitting to Him as a witness of the greatness and holiness of our King!